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Know who you're meeting and meet in public!!! 8/12/2005
It was on the news here in NC, a woman left from Flordia to
meet a man in Charlotte. Whom she met on an on line dating
service. Well she wound up begin tied up and for 2 days
in a Microtel. She got away from him and they say he's
done it before. That is why I like to meet somewhere public
first.You never know what you got until it is too late.
1 Comments, 332 Views,
19 Votes
,4.18 Score
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One in the Hand is worth Two in the bush 8/10/2005
There are many ways to make dating safe and fun. I find that when I meet a person from this site for the first time it is always wise to wear a helmet. I am not talking about a condom here. I am talking about a full motorcycle helmet with face shield. This sets the tone for the evening and shows your perspective date that you are a responsible adult.
Secondly, always wear a protective cup. ...
1 Comments, 82 Views,
22 Votes
,0.12 Score
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New Swinger's Information on Parties 8/8/2005
Swingers parties are a great place to meet new couple, singles,
whatever u are into. People usually hang out, drink, dance,
etc...If u are new to the lifestyle and are attending ur
first party read any-and-all rules that apply to this setting,
there are usually a couple. One in particualr u want to find
though is the "NO MEANS NO" agreement. Which
states simply that no means no. If you say ...
1 Comments, 288 Views,
9 Votes
,3.85 Score
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Condoms...A must. 7/24/2005
I think the safety of a meeting is as important as the urge
for the gratification.What do you think>?
1 Comments, 177 Views,
3 Votes
,3.43 Score
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meeting for the first time... 7/21/2005
Do you ladies like to meet at your place first, or someplace
in public and then decide?
2 Comments, 136 Views,
2 Votes
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safe ? 7/20/2005
whgat is really safe?
safe sex? like the pill or condoms?
blah blah blah
1 Comments, 131 Views,
6 Votes
,1.94 Score
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HI 7/17/2005
Has anyone had a bad experiences on here....
3 Comments, 192 Views,
3 Votes
,2.94 Score
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How a photo album can make for a safe date 7/7/2005
I just happen to have a bunch of cops that are close friends.
One day I was out for coffee on a first date with a guy and we
were talking about our pets. I got out my little photo album
and flipped by about 6 photos of me and my friends in their
uniforms to get to my dog's photo. All the sudden the
guy had an appointment he forgot about and he got up and left
in a hurry. I never heard ...
1 Comments, 348 Views,
12 Votes
,5.63 Score
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fetishes 7/5/2005
i had a friend experiance a true dating nightmare , she was
talking to a man online for over a year and evintually decided
to meet him , so she went to dallas for the weekend. In talking
to this man for so long she knew that he had a fetish , his turn
-on was a womans neck :so in thinking that she liked her necked
nibbled on and caressed with lips she thought that this
encounter would be a ...
2 Comments, 303 Views,
14 Votes
,4.26 Score
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Where to meet 7/3/2005
We have invited people to our home on occasion after several
long on-line and telephone conversations including web
camming.
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We would adivise meeting at a party or a pub/club, unless
you feel a connection right off.
1 Comments, 171 Views,
5 Votes
,4.12 Score
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If you want a date 6/14/2005
If you want to fuck me do not let the size of your cock bother
you. They all feel great and I can bet you my pussy feels great
to all of you.SO if you want the best twat going around come
and get you some
1 Comments, 148 Views,
50 Votes
,6.38 Score
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Posting old photos? 6/10/2005
Posting an old photo versus no photo is understandable,
but be upfront that the photo is old. AdultFriendFinder members want to
see the current you, on your profile, not what you looked
like 5 years ago.
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Posting recent photos shows that you are honest and sincere
about meeting new friends. Posting recent photos will
help avoid uncomfortable conversations about what you
really look like. ...
0 Comments, 54 Views,
7 Votes
,4.57 Score
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location, location, location 6/7/2005
Remember, when you have a chance for a romantic evening.
The place is half the battle. The chances of continuing
to date, have a longterm relationship or even sex can depend
on where you go. If you go somewhere quiet and somber, she
may enjoy it or she may become tired and want to end the date
sooner. An active person will appreciate an active location,
clubs for an example can be good. ...
1 Comments, 2655 Views,
103 Votes
,3.51 Score
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HOW IMPORTANT ARE LOOKS 6/4/2005
Don't get me wrong, looks do matter. A little. I've
been with hotties and not so hotties, but the sex is not always
the same. Some of my best sex has been with the no-so-hotties,
and my worst with the hotties. If the girl is good in bed,
looks don't matter as much. And sometimes the hotties
are stuck up or pruddish. This is not always the case but
just remember good looks doesn't always ...
4 Comments, 247 Views,
12 Votes
,4.74 Score
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Be Careful when ur out there !!! 5/28/2005
More than 1 out of every four women have been or sexually
abused....and most of the time the situations are preventable...juat
remember to take safety precautions when u are out in the
world looking for a good time ..... especially with the
recent increase in sexual crimes on women .....
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remember to...
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1. let close ppl friends/family to u know where u are going ...
0 Comments, 404 Views,
25 Votes
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Meeting Someone For The First Time 5/16/2005
Hello Everyone,
I am new to this and haven't actually followed through
with physically meeting anyone yet. My question is, what
is the safest and most preferred way to go about personally
meeting someone. Where do most people like to meet their
"friends" for the first time? At the house,
the mall, the bar?
3 Comments, 460 Views,
24 Votes
,3.47 Score
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Extreme but safe 4/30/2005
When meeting a first date that you have not shared a photo
with, try the following:
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Arrange the date at a location that is usually busy, and
which you are familiar with. Have your date describe themself
to you, what they are wearing, height, weight, hair color,
etc. Do this just prior to meeting. Tell your date to wait
30 minutes and then leave if you don't contact them. ...
1 Comments, 279 Views,
11 Votes
,2.79 Score
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Should you ever.... 4/28/2005
We have been invited to a few peoples houses but I never want
to go unless I already have met the person because I am afraid
of what might happen if they turn out to be nuts. Should you
ever go to someones house from AdultFriendFinder you have never met????????
3 Comments, 252 Views,
11 Votes
,2.79 Score
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Call Girls- Are they worth it? 4/17/2005
I want the men opinion on calls girls. I am a naught girl myself and the way i see it is a lot cheaper way to go for a sure thing. I did the exotic dance thing and at the end of the night a guy would have spent several hundered dollars on beer and lap dances just to maybe see and smell some pussy (and maybe sneek a touch in). Or you go into a bar and try all the best lines and still come up with ...
6 Comments, 92 Views,
63 Votes
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NAMES OF GUYS TO AVOID ON HERE AND SISITER SITES 4/14/2005
I have this evening been robbed by a man who claimed to be
a vwe blk man who lived in east london Walthamstow (obviously
a lie)Granted it was my own dam fault for trusting his no
good thieving ass but my mum passed away last week and although
chatted b4 breifly took it upon myself to trust him and was
very wrong. He also stole some of my mums items as he fooled
me into believing he would be ...
1 Comments, 328 Views,
21 Votes
,4.86 Score
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Residence 4/14/2005
This can be for ladies and gentlemen. If you have a date,
and they insist, (for some reason, ) to pick you up from
your house, trust me, it is a trap to see where you stay, and
stalk you, and/or do worse things. So, this is what I do,
I tell them okay, and guide them to at least 4 streets over.
So, that way, you know the area, but don't have to let
them know where you stay. Or, you ...
0 Comments, 200 Views,
15 Votes
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Come on ladies...get safe! 4/7/2005
Why are ladies meeting just any guy without running them
through the proper obstacle course? If the guy is aggressive
on the internet chances are he is ten times worse in person.
Always meet during the day first. I know how much everyone
likes to meet for a drink at night but in the dark is when most
crimes occur. Have a cell phone, meet in a public area, and
look for red flags before ...
3 Comments, 223 Views,
10 Votes
,2.39 Score
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try new things.... 4/4/2005
I use to use a .357 for dating safety. That big bad boy could
drop a BBW at 75 feet. Dead in her tracks. But lately with
the new age women, I find that a taser jock strap works best.
If they want to try anything out of line, especially before
I've had a chance to ask them if they know our Lord and
Savior Jesus Christ, then I'll juice my crotch and
give 'em quite the shock. Depending on how ...
3 Comments, 171 Views,
16 Votes
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Genuine or Not? 4/3/2005
How can you be sure to who is behind a profile on AdultFriendFinder?
Sure there are more genuine females/males/couples than
there are fake, but how can you separate the bad apples from
the good ones?
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I think that the adult verification is a great idea, but
to some it could seem a little off-putting/time consuming
having to print out the form and fill in all the details then ...
5 Comments, 348 Views,
25 Votes
,3.24 Score
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Safety First 4/3/2005
Ok ladies listen up and same goes for you men as well. I'm
been meeting people online for over 5 years now and there
is no thing that's actually saved my life once.
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Starters NEVER give out your home phone number until after
you meet and get to know the person off line. Gie them your
cel phone number only. There are too many ways of people
finding your home addy, place of ...
8 Comments, 1131 Views,
103 Votes
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Don't give out much Info 3/22/2005
I have found that generally on this site most men are liers
to some extent. I assume a lot of women do this also but why
lie about who you are of if you are married? You will be found
out and it just makes people mad for no reason. Also noticed
guys like to say sure lets meet in public then turn around
and say where do you live? DON'T TELL THEM!!!!! Most
men are just curious but some can be ...
1 Comments, 152 Views,
14 Votes
,3.30 Score
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On line dating and how to do it safely 3/22/2005
I'm a new member to this web page. What I want too know
how safe do you think it is to meet someone you are writing
over the web pages. The way I see it is read the profiles and
always go down to the QUESTION that asks HAVE YOU BEEN TRUTHFUL
and if they answered YES then read though the rest of the
questions that they answered then talk to them on line for
about 2 weeks before meeting. You ...
0 Comments, 124 Views,
10 Votes
,2.59 Score
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any advice? 3/19/2005
i recently recieved an email from a couple on this site.
a man told me i had permission to fuck his wife.i emailed
him back about some irregulaitites in his email and he then
emailed me back with very plausible explainations. i am
thinking about meeting with this couple. although i am
able to take care of myself in most any situation i would
like to know if anyone has any particular advice ...
5 Comments, 469 Views,
16 Votes
,3.72 Score
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drinking 3/13/2005
Haveing spoken with several people who have had some less
than desirable experiences, I have the following advice.
Women: do not drink any alcohol on a first date. Too much
and who knows what can happen, but even a little can easily
bring you to a compromising situation.
1 Comments, 30 Views,
31 Votes
,6.02 Score
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RE: How do you know? 3/13/2005
There really is no way to know who the person you are about
to meet really is. Many people are married for a several
years before they learn who they are married to or what their
spouce's personality is like. The key is to think,
be smart, and question everything. If you still feel comfortable
at that point, then go for it.
1 Comments, 58 Views,
37 Votes
,8.23 Score
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