Looking for a genuine lady in the same or similar position aged between 30-60 A lady in a similar position would suit me as I believe we have a mutual respect for eachothers situations and home life and respect the rules and absolute need for discretion trust & cleanliness. I have a partner, she is fantastic person however there is no connection in the bedroom. I'm just searching for that spark that connection that butterflies in your tummy feeling you lose but crave after a long term marriage or relationship. I'm only looking for one woman (I don't sleep around) I want to find that connection that chemistry . The only way I can describe it is When you look at somebody you know that neither of you have to say a single word to eachother you just know what the other is thinking ???? I've reached a stage in my life where I'm looking to share some fun times with somebody who I can trust and who is in similar position , somebody to give me my sparkle back , a gorgeous lady in the background of my life who keeps me smiling .( not somebody who wants me to leave my partner because that is not going to happen) !!! Somebody to be silly with to laugh with and to have awesome sex with somebody who has a brain who can stimulate my mind aswel as my body and somebody who makes me tick gives me my sparkle back. We all have our own reasons for being on here; so let's not judge. I`m not gonna describe my appearance as I think that on this site what you actually do with your body is much more important than how it looks - but you will not be disappointed.... I`m rlooking for is a play mate to please and build a mutual lasting friendship. That`s about it really. If you`re up for some good old-fashioned fun let`s hook up.

My Ideal Person I have no preference - Discretion IS a MUST