Hello there and thanks for taking a few minutes to peruse my profile. I had been a member of AFF for a long time but deleted my profile and went on a hiatus a few years ago. I've had some life changing events (a divorce) so now I'm back and ready to make friends and frolic! I'm a professional man, with a very professional job that does require quite a bit of my time. I work hard but play even harder and enjoy my free time with my kiddos. When I'm not doing one of those two things I enjoy making new friends and of course having fun in and out of the bedroom. I'm a suit and tie type of guy but I do enjoy letting my hair down. I try to take care of myself, led a funfilled life, hit the gym on a semi regular basis and just your typical dad bod man. I'm an old school type of guy, very chivalrous, open doors, and always treat women with dignity and respect. I'm drug and disease free (and expect to stay that way) and of course I'm vasectomy safe! I'm a diamond in the rough, a great catch, an awesome friend, great in and out of bed, and I'm packed full of surprises. Some of those just happen to be my tongue ring and of course my two penis piercings. Yes I'm naughty and I have never had anyone complain about their ability to make them orgasm or rubbing a women the right way in certain positions to make them squirt. Now if those don't happen to be your thing, its no problem they come right out and you never knew they were there! I'm a drug and disease free gentleman and of course I ask the same. My health, safety, and privacy is very important to me and of course I treat my friends the same way in return. I don't kiss and tell, and with all the negativity and stigmas that surrounding sites such as these, if I saw you out and about (I wouldn't even acknowledge that I know you), it's not a dis or a sign of disrespect, its simply about keeping your trust, privacy, and friendship. I do have some experience with two different couples over my lifetime and they were both wonderful and long term. Unfortunately both couples had to relocate which ended my relationship with them. Thanks again for taking a look, remember stay safe, choose quality over quantity, and always keep your cards close to the vest!

My Ideal Person A down to earth couple or a single/attached women. Respectful, funny, real, flirty, discrete, honest, and appreciative are all great traits I'm looking for in a casual friends with benefits, friendship, or fuck buddy situation. I'm open various situations but by no means am I a bed hopper

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
I would absolutely love to have sex somewhere outside/outdoors
with the risk of being caught or watched. Its so damn naughty!

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
The beach, A moving vehicle (i.e. car), The middle of a park, A dark back alley, A remote wilderness spot, Under a waterfall, A swimming pool or hot tub

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Candle Wax, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Making Home "Movies", Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
A little of each

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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